It has been a whirlwind of busyness ever since we returned home from our summer hiking trip in early August. With Whisper leaving us to attend school, there was much to do. Nonetheless, I wanted to write a wrap-up of our summer trip. Better late than never.
Mama and Papa Raven have had to re-adjust to hiking without Bling and Whisper. They are genuinely missed by their parents. For the past twenty years, our kids have always been out in wild places with us. Hiking had never been more gratifying. There was no limit to the possible ways The Raven family had fun as we hiked together. There were snowball fights, baseball with sticks and snow balls, games of “Pooh Sticks,” squirt gun battles, and barefoot races in the snow. We became Badland warriors as our hiking poles became swords. No wonder The Ravens took so long to get anywhere, we were too busy having fun. On a daily basis during a long hike, The Raven family laughed a lot together. We giggled and laughed over the simplest of things. It was contagious. One Raven begins and before you know it, all are joining in, and chuckles turn into roaring laughter. It felt so good. Those deep belly bursts of laughter were a daily occurrence as we hiked with our kids. Why can’t Papa Raven and I have our own snowball fights? Thus, we did this year. Such little acts of fun along the way this summer made all the difference in the world to our hiking this year.
One of our favorite parts of our summer’s hiking adventure was the first three days of our trip, when we encountered nobody. It seemed like we were the only ones out hiking in the area. Pure remoteness and serenity filled those early days. For the next week or so, there were only a couple of hikers we bumped into. Once we hit the road to Chester, two weeks into our trip, the trail became a freeway system of PCT thru-hikers. Some headed north, while others headed south. There was so much snow this year that the mass majority of them skipped from Kennedy Meadows, in the very southern part of the Sierra Nevada’s all the way up to Chester in northern California. It is a huge section to skip. Our trip began before Chester, so we were in a hiker-free zone, and we loved it. It felt like we had the trail all to ourselves. After Chester, finding a campsite each night was a regular challenge. The many hikers we encountered seemed wayward and disoriented about how to reach their goal. Most knew they would not be able to complete the entire trail; thus, they had lost their heart and dedication to a thru-hike. Hiking the trail properly was not the goal. Why hike a difficult section when you can get a ride around it? Not all were this way, but far more than we are used to seeing… or is this the attitude of long-distance hikers these days? We also noted that many thru-hikers did not even adopt a trail name. Nonetheless, it was a very difficult year to hike the PCT. In fact, the last few years have been difficult to hike the entire PCT from end to end due to fires. Knowing the difficult conditions of the trail this year, we asked ourselves, “What would we have done?” We would not have hiked it but instead bounced over to one of the other long trails.
There were many favorite parts this year. A big highlight was when our good friends Dave and Marji drove up to visit us when we were in Dunsmuir. This was completely unexpected and an awesome treat. Another favorite were the hundreds, if not thousands, of butterflies we encountered along the way. There are always butterflies here and there as we hike, but this year it was something else. All day long, everywhere we went, we would be amongst these beautiful elements of nature as they fluttered aimlessly all about. There were so many different kinds, shapes, and colors intermingling with one another. We have never seen this many butterflies before. We are uncertain as to why. Perhaps this is what it is always like in early summer?
The sunsets and sunrises that greeted us each day were special. To walk again amongst those majestic trees, wildflowers, and rock formations was a true blessing. To stand high above on a mountain top or pass above all the chaos and dysfunction of the world below is powerful. The muddled head clears, and the heart opens wide. Hiking along in nature, we find freedom, harmony, and peace. There is a strong spiritual element to nature. It definitely has a voice for those willing to listen. I am convinced more than ever that the most divine element in our lives is not a book, a building, or even a person. Instead, it is nature. It is what lies underneath our feet.
Both Papa and Mama Raven were very pleased with our hiking endurance, which seemed to grow every day of our hike. When you reach a certain age, the whole world keeps telling you that you are getting old and do not expect to accomplish what you used to when you were younger. It might take us a little longer to reach the point where we can hike a marathon a day, but I learned on this trip that we are still very capable of accomplishing that task. We hiked every day to our fullest potential this season. Instead of being a bit mopey without our kids, we were enthusiastic and thankful about what we were doing. We had fun. We kept up with the fast and young hikers that have already been out for a couple of months. Some we even passed and never saw again. This was a real moral booster. Over the past few years, I have doubted myself and my capabilities. There are body parts that hurt. I wondered if the best days of our hiking were behind us. With this summer’s hiking, we pushed ourselves in a way we have not done in a while. In fact, if we had a little more time on the trail this year, I am confident that we could have hiked a number of thirty-mile days through Oregon. Genuinely, we loved what we were doing this summer. My love and passion for the world of long-distance backpacking were greatly renewed.
So what were our least favorite elements of our summer hiking adventure? To be truthful, there were not many. Only two come to mind: blowdowns and mosquitoes. There were far too many of both. I guess I could add hot weather to the list. There were a couple of days that were sweltering hot. It was so stifling that you began to wonder if it was safe to be out hiking in it. Then, of course, there is always my feet, the one aspect that routinely ruins all pleasure for me when I hike. The bigger miles we hike, the more they hurt. We soaked our feet in cold streams, rivers, and snow banks. If there was a way to exchange my old, worn-out feet for new ones, I would. I joked at dinner with our friends Dave and Marji that I am ready to have the nerves in my right foot removed to eliminate pain. I said this in a joking manner, but I was dead serious. So serious that I have an upcoming doctor’s appointment with a peripheral nerve surgeon. This is the cutting-edge surgical treatment for chronic nerve pain, which is what I have. My best understanding of this procedure is that it is not the removal of a nerve but rather the disengagement of a nerve of a very specific area. The procedure’s goal is to disable the nerve-to-brain-pain pathway. We shall see what he has to say.
Meanwhile, Whisper is now attending college in Quincy, California. It was a difficult departure for both her and us. My last image of her is from the car’s side view mirror, looking back at her sitting on the curb with her head down, crying as it was drizzling rain. Nonetheless, she is doing well. She and her dorm roommate get along beautifully. Whisper attended her first football game the other day by herself. She has never watched the sport before and thus knows nothing about it other than the basic premises of two sides vying to move a ball beyond a goal post for a score. During the first quarter, she called us to ask questions about the fine details of the sport. She and her dad talked for nearly an hour as the game carried on, discussing what was happening.
As I write this, it is 4:30 in the morning, and Bling just left to go climbing in an area near Mt. San Jacinto, which is located up above Palm Springs. Bling is struggling to figure out what he is supposed to do in this world. Recently, he announced he would like to move to Chattanooga, Tennessee. He will be finishing this semester; after that, we are uncertain what he will actually do. Meanwhile, we will be gently encouraging him to not give up on education. Taking time off is good. Going to Chattanooga is also good, but giving up on school entirely is a difficult pill for his parents to swallow.